Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Too Much Of A Good Thing

This year I've been living in Taichung City and although I like being closer to foreigners and foreign food it's becoming too much of a good thing. For one thing, foreign food is more expensive so my wallet feels lighter than when I lived in Wuchi. But, perhaps, the biggest issue is that I'm missing out on the Taiwanese culture. I'm not practicing Chinese as I surround myself with foreigners and Taiwanese people who want to learn English. Also, the predominately younger foreign crowd is well, let's just say immature and running fast. In addition, the foreign crowd tends to be filled with malcontents. Yeah, they may put on a smile and act happy, especially after kicking a few back, but the stress of living in a foreign country is there in them. I don't care who you are. You are going to feel it. It's natural and I speak from personal experience. Once the group psychology gets going the manifestation of this stress can be quite strong if you are sensitive to it. I didn't really notice it until I visited some teachers in Wuchi. Most foreigners never notice it because they never leave the comfort circle of familiarity. There is something to be said for 'easing into new waters', but eventually you just have to jump in and swim. So, how does that translate into action for me? Buy a bicycle and join a cycling club. Find a Taiwanese hiking and mountaineering club. Learn Chinese and spend my free time in places where I can use it. Learn some Taiwanese songs so my time playing guitar in the park may generate some contact and maybe conversation. I'm sure I will come up with more ideas, but I'm glad that I've had this realization. I know it will make my experience in Taiwan richer and more enjoyable.

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